An event that marked my transition from childhood to adulthood -- Riho

 I had various experiences in my life. I am going to talk about an event that marked my transition from childhood to adulthood. When I was a child, I had been going to junior high school and I was a member of a brass band club. The club was so big that over 80 students have joined it. When I attended the club activity a first time, I was surprised at a number of  people and a cute teacher who was music teacher and my club advisor. She changed my mindset later in the story. 

 The club was huge so I felt nervous, but I could get to talk to almost all students and became a friend. However, I could not have good relationships with senior club members. It made me cheerful less. At that time , a club advisor told me something. The club advisor gave students a paper at the last meeting and there was written paragraphs in a part of book. That paragraph said, “ when we talk with someone, we have a feeling, and your feeling has reflected partner.” I had an empathy so far at that time . This quotation changed my mindset and I became childhood to adulthood. Before I read this paper, I thought  that friends feelings depended on themselves and their feelings are not changed in my attitude. However, it was not corrected that was an important my attitude to friends. Also, it depends on my feelings, their feelings was changed, my relationship with a senior member was getting better than before. 

 After my mindset changed, my relationship with a senior was getting better than before. Because my feelings changed that lt is not important to think about how partner feel now. The most important thing that changing my behavior. So I could get afford to do something more and grew up myself. It was an event that marked my transition from childhood to adulthood.