My Reflective essay -- Yusuke

 Almost 3 years ago, I had a big trouble which I hadn’t experienced before. The trouble was that I felt lonely after living alone when I started to study at university.I had lived with my parents for a long time since I was born, so I wasn’t accustomed to living alone. Moreover, my house was far from my university, which made me feel even more isolated.

Next, I’ll explain how I got over this situation. At first, I had no idea how I should deal with this trouble, so I used to go back to my hometown so often. However, one day, I decided to start a part-time job. As I started to work, I could build new relationships with colleagues. We used to hang out together after finishing work, like driving to watch the night view. It relieved me of my loneliness. Furthermore, I realized it is essential to adapt to new environments because every time a life stage changes, human relationships change.

By experiencing this problem, I became mentally stronger, so I appreciate being able to experience it now. In the future, perhaps, incidents like this will happen. Nevertheless, thanks to this experience, I learned how to overcome difficulties, and it will definitely help me  to solve any similar problems that arise.


Comments

  1. I had never imagined about loneliness at living alone, but I think feeling isolated makes feel negative and it's difficult to overcome it by alone. I thought making a new relationships is good way to solve the loneliness.

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  2. I can understand your feeling because I also have lived alone.

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  3. I tend to feel homesick, so I feel you a little bit, I have never lived alone before though. However for my part, interacting with other people is the easiest way to get used to new environment, and get over feelings of lonelyness and nervousness.

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  4. I really agree with you! And also I think it is easy to like hung out with friends so I think that is good point of living alone.

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